experimental

that
love was
a hot summer
happiness lifting
smells of Coppertone
gleaming silver moonlight
reflecting in the rise and fall
rippling on a drought stained river
shushing shrill staccato symphonies
of fat crickets and rusty old john boats
easing and thumping against each other
like the two of us, forever and for never
at times, when I hear that sound of metal
grieving against hot metal I can see your
sunburned shoulders, red as the clay banks
freckled with flat stones and just as broad
my chin resting on the smooth of your arm
swan neck, goose flesh, breathy humming
and the fireflies whispering pale promises
erasing the stars and the history of worlds
beyond that cool stream and blue eyes
fixed to me with a poison ivy vine
and the quick ease of July sweat
having everything to gain
and everything to lose
what perfect love
what perfect love

"I don't like you."

“I don’t like you.”

It surprised me … how lightly and easily
it tripped from precious little angel lips.

“I don’t like you.”

It surprised me … how much it stung
my soul and made me question myself.

“I don’t like you.”

It surprised me … how powerful and
definitive and final the words sound.

“I don’t like you.”

It surprised me … how innocence is lost
So quickly, dressed in just four syllables.

“I don’t like you.”


But, I know he likes me. I know that he was acting out in response to his brother. I know that he was attempting to articulate his frustration and displeasure regarding the injustice he had just suffered. I know all of that. It still made me a little sad.

The truth is, kids just grow up too fast. Even inside of the years I’ve been a mother, I see each younger child advancing at a rate faster than the sibling that preceded him. I can only imagine how much faster it is if compared by generation.

The differences are obvious in curriculum and competition and physical development. I was not expected to read books in Kindergarten (which only lasted 3 hours/day). I could, but it wasn’t expected. I wasn’t worried about state competitions in 3rd grade or about representing my school or my county. I didn’t have B cup hooters in middle school, or high school for that matter.

The one constant, I suppose, is our ability as human beings to take our disappointment and dissatisfaction, wad it into a nice, tight ball, and throw it … hard. Sometimes it hits the right target, sometimes an innocent bystander takes the blow. Words don’t need new computer systems or nuclear technology, their ultimate power has existed forever.

“I don’t like you.”

“But, I love you.”

Life as Waltz

In my waltz
You are bass
You keep time
While I race
Tripping through
Life in notes
One, two, three
One, two, three

I never
Fall from grace
You hold me
In my place
Dancing like
Anna’s ghost
One, two, three
One, two, three

Without your
Steady face
Time sliding
Into space
I need you
Ever close
One, two, three
One, two, three

***

I have this recurring nightmare
where the atmosphere burns away in a line like a piece of paper.

The fire bleeds into the clouds and they fill up like blisters.
Toxic puss and acid rain down on my black hair.

The heat wraps around my neck like noose,
My lungs retract, my heart screams

Silver fireworks explode
in the blackness,
my eyelids

closed.

**

End waltz.

Crush

Heavy raindrops destroy tiny petals
Giver of life, taker of loveliness
Delicate by design, lacking mettle
Powerful victims of their prettiness
And there are no drowning cries of duress
Painless, graceful, a natural event
Pinned down, earthy ground seeks no forgiveness
Its brown blood stained splatter, heaven sent
Proud rose, rare lily, distant hyacinth
Your borrowed beauty betrayed by ego
Facing the tempest, to your detriment
Splendor betrayed by that which makes you grow
A garden full of blossoms rarely suits
One who knows that beauty is in the roots

In The Dreaming

I found you in my dreams last night.

I’m not sure if it was you
or the late spring lightning that woke me,
but I knowingly slipped out of bed and down the hall
in that old Stanford t-shirt I should have thrown out decades ago.
You were standing by the big piano in the dining room,
the sound of a low octave ‘G’ caught
by settling dust trapped in iridescent moonbeams.
Each note you struck filled the room for a few seconds
and then washed out like an old photograph.

The hours shifted and radiant light surrounded you,
not unlike the Madonna of Old Masters.
How beautiful you looked, how peaceful,
practically enraptured by the simplicity of each hammer
striking its wire,
each note a pitch-perfect elegy
to your fears and worries.

There was clarity in those keys that are so rarely played,
something odd yet familiar,
something that commanded a new ear
and an old heart that understands the purity
and infinite nature of every precious note.

I came to sit on the bench beside where you stood,
and a shiver ran through me
as my warm legs pressed down on cold glassy wood.
We glanced at each other, saying nothing.
I slid over to make room for you.
And we played.

We played thousands of beautiful, perfect notes together,
each one pinned with a little piece of human frailty
and released into the night.

In the living,
perhaps all of this takes place in a trendy chain restaurant
as we nibble on nachos and make small talk
or perhaps it exists in a pale green and lavender waiting room
with shushed encouragement and awkward handholding.

But in the dreaming …
in the dreaming we sit very still at the big piano in the dining room
and there is harmony
and liberation
and forever.

Healing

I long for a magnificent box full of silvery magic that I could use to heal you. Inside, there would be hundreds of potions in tiny crystal bottles, etched by lightning bolts and filled by angels. There would be restorative salves of rosebud and lemongrass and soothing elixirs drawn from the sparkling white edge of a rainforest waterfall.

I could comfort you with whispered chants and incantations, my hands hovering like hummingbirds above your head, twisting and pulling the mildewed threads of regret and doubt; unraveling your defenses and granting your soul a freeness it has not yet known.

I could cover your heart with tiny, purple violets and the perfume of lilacs, infusing your bluish blood with returning love, it’s perennial patience filling your cells, waltzing with the nucleus of your body and soul.

I could wash your hands with a lamb’s kindness, replacing the dull, thin skin spotted brown with soft pink electricity; placing your fingers and palms together, pressing out oily ills, leaving you clean and dry and welcomed on the other side, spirit engaged, colorless diamond perfection.

I could press cool turquoise stones against the smooth ivory skin of your eyelids soaking up your fever and odium, returned to an earthly rock coffin, leaving your sight clear, vision reborn; see the roaring sea and a single raindrop in their shared innocence and divine power.

I could line your back with the leaves of a mighty oak, its woody strength and rough bark forcing you upright, towering against pillows of cottony white clouds, towards a family and a kingdom whose ancestry commands respect; its inheritance, the iron chain of confident belonging and the riches of age.

Alas, I have no silvery magic, no glorious spells, no enchanted garden. All I have to offer is my love.

Storms

What if a tornado took me to Oz

and left Dorothy brewing at Aunt Em.

Wet meets dry, spinning clouds, throwing thunder,

and I’m off the ground, light as a feather.

Would you even notice my departure?

No seatbelts to buckle. Just departure.

Where is that yellow brick road of such fame?

I’ll follow it, oh I’ll follow that road.

I’ll follow it until my tendons snap,

until the scarecrow saves me from myself.

Beware me friend, I’ll spin your straw to gold

and leave you a heap of rags in the road.

What a gift it would be to spin sadness,

Spin it like a tornado or a spool

to self-destruct or hide in a drawer.

But, what if there is no Oz at journey’s end?

Will I ride that wind like a blue wave

and wash up on the shores of contentment

or, will it eat me like hungry lions

feeding on worthlessness and gristle bone?

** photo from http://www.wendyswizardofoz.com/wiz_bw07.jpg

Is My Backyard Haunted?

Spring

petals softly move
welcoming blossom in pink
beauty there to touch

April Fool's & Twins ~

(several years ago)

We sat down on the couch. I started to cry. Cry might not really convey what I was doing … maybe the right word is “sob”. No … not really … I started to “wail” … yes, that’s it, I started to wail. I buried my face in my husband’s shirt and said those two little words that were sure to make his testicles shrink to the size of peas, “I’m pregnant”. I followed that up with a lot of, “this is the worst thing ever” and “I don’t want to be pregnant” and “goddamn, this is the worst thing ever”.

Trust me, whenever you say, “this is the worst thing ever”, it’s not.

After much consoling, I regained what was left of my dignity and we did what everyone else does, called the doctor.

Dr. Steve was a friend of ours. His daughter and our daughter had been in preschool together for two years and had continued on through third grade together. You might think it’s strange to have a close friend as your gynecologist, and it is … really strange … but once he swabs your vagina the first time and squeezes your boobs, it’s really all downhill from there. It’s as close to “swinging” as I’ve ever gotten.

I made the appointment with Dr. Steve’s office. He had delivered my first two sons and had compassionately helped me through the loss of another. His nurse, Jennifer, was a peach and when I spoke to her, I could tell she was authentically excited for us.

Finally, the day arrived and I headed out to my appointment. My daughter wanted to go out for breakfast and that sounded great, so I arranged for the nanny, Heather, to meet us and take the daughter so I could go to the appointment. We had a delicious breakfast, but when we went back to the car, it wouldn’t start. The battery was dead. Already nervous, I shifted into anxious panic.

Heather showed up right on time. She delivered me to Dr. Steve and I called for Hubs to pick me up there. Then we would deal with the car. After three children, having him there with me for the first appointment, when all you do is pee in the cup and find out that yes, your life is about to become more complicated, wasn’t really necessary for me.

I peed and what do you know ~ pregnant. Hooray. I went back and he felt my tummy and laughed hysterically. Dr. Steve’s daughter is an only child. This is good for Dr. Steve because that means his Porche is not only gorgeous, it’s practical.

He measures and giggles and tells me about the new tractor he’s going to buy with my co-pays. I snarl and plot ungodly ways to castrate my husband.

Dr. Steve thinks I may be about 15 weeks along and wants to do an ultrasound since there’s an opening and it’s across the hall. I pinch the paper robe behind my ass and slip across the hall, practically unnoticed by the throng of women sitting a few yards away. Awesome.

Lisa, who’s performed probably 15 ultrasounds on me, is on duty. Good news. I like her. I lay back on the table and she splooges her icy cold gel onto my belly that makes me seize up like I’ve been electrocuted. She rolls it around and around and around. She makes her bizarre sounds, “hmmmmm”, “mmmmmmumumum”, “uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh”, and rolls it around some more.

Then she says, “Damn, you’re having twins!”

I say, “Yhea, whatever.”

She says, “Really!”

I say, “Okay … he’s not getting me today. Forget it.”

She says, “Seriously, Ann, you’re having twins.”

I lay there pretending to inspect my nails, pursing my lips and giving every outward signal I could that Dr. Steve was not going to nail me on April Fool’s Day again. Nope.

“Ann, sit up and look at this.”

I sat up and looked at the black and white screen … hell, she could have told me it was 15 kittens and I could have seen it, just like cloud animals, and the Virgin Mary.

“Okay. Whatever you say.”

She was showing signs of serious frustration, which made me a bit worried. I looked a little closer. I could see ‘em. Right there on the screen, head … butt, head … butt.

“Oh Damn! Oh Damn! Oh Damn!”

I lay back down. I hyperventilated. She helped me up.

“I have an idea”, she says. “Let’s tell Dr. Steve that you’re having triplets. That will be so funny. You’ll get him good today.”

I would have said, “Okay”, but my brain had turned to oatmeal.

I go back across the hall into my little room not caring who saw my ass. I hear Dr. Steve outside the door. He chuckles and moves some paper and mutters, “yhea, right, they’re not getting me today.”

He comes in and says, “So you’re having triplets.”

I said nothing.

He starts throwing papers from my clipboard into the trash. Then he stops. He looks at me. He looks at the two sets of pictures stapled to the front of the file. He sits down on his little stool and looks again. Then he says this, “Holy crap, Ann, you’re having twins.” Then he put his head down on the counter. Okay ~ even if you know the guy, this is not what you want from your health care provider.

He turns to me and asks where Hubs is. I tell him that I think he’s out in the waiting room waiting for me.

“Want me to go get him?” I asked.

“Hell no. I’m going in my office and lock the door.”

Great.

I take my little green and white checkout paper and head towards the front. Hubs is there and comes over to wait with me. I said nothing. I handed my paper to Brandy who looks at it and then gives me that big, wide-eyed, what-the-hell look. I give her a shut-the-hell-up look. She gets busy processing me for my next appointment.

Julie walks behind Brandy’s chair and of course has to look over to see what’s going on. She looks up with a big smile and the loudest voice in the history of medical checkout and says, “OH MY GOD, YOU’RE HAVING TWINS?” I look at Hubs. He looks at me. We look at her. Brandy elbows her in the gut. I nod yes. He turns white as a sheet. Somebody else yells, “TWINS!” Brandy asks Hubs if he needs CPR. He replies that he wants a DNA test. One of my students walks in. Hugs all around.

We walk to the car without saying a word. My nerves are “tore up”, as they say in North Carolina. I get into the car thinking about my job and about the little house we live in and that everything in my life is suddenly and drastically different. I look at Hubs waiting for some words or sign that everything is going to be all right … that this is a good thing … that everything will be fine because we have each other.

He looks at me, smiles strangely and says, “This isn’t an April Fool’s joke is it?”

Nope, no joke ~

In Which I Get Screwed By Country Music

Country music isn’t really my thing. It is, however, my daughter’s thing. She’s a die hard fan, a fact I base loosely on region and slightly on a recessive gene I must have picked up from my mother and passed along unknowingly to her. The good and dominant gene, which we both possess, came from my Dad; that would be the ‘live show’ gene.

When combined, those genetic markers make for a child obsessed with concerts … country music concerts.

Together, we’ve attended many shows, big and small. She’s even had the remarkable experience of meeting a lot of country artists like Miranda Lambert, Rodney Adkins, and Little Big Town. Her room is decorated with autographs and photographs, ticket stubs and t-shirts. She loves it. All of it. And I love to see her excitement ~ that’s the real high for me.

Caveat ~ Before anyone starts to wonder if this child is a spoiled monkey, let me assure that she is practically perfect. She’s a straight-A student, plays competitive soccer about 30 weekends a year, helps her brothers in unimaginable ways, does chores, babysits for her own money … I could go on all day. She’s a great kid and when I can, I do things for her just to make her smile. That’s my privilege as her Momma.

Now, to the heart of the matter.

A couple of weeks ago, we went to Miami (pronounced Mi-am-uh, just like Missour-uh), Oklahoma to the Buffalo Run Casino to see Jason Aldean. I wasn’t really familiar with Mr. Aldean, but Hubs bought the tickets off of someone who couldn’t go. Fourth row, dead-ass center. You can’t argue with that and the girl was thrilled!

We left early and stopped for a great dinner and did a little shopping before arriving at the Casino at 7:00 sharp. God forbid we be late for a whole hours worth of AC/DC and Fleetwood Mac from the soundboard. Hooray! We got to our seats easily, everything was marked well and the Casino staff was very helpful, all over the age of 65, but very helpful.

Now, let me be clear about this. When I say “Casino”, I’m not talking casino-casino, Vegas style castle, or Trump-ed up blackjack palace; I’m talking about an airplane hangar stuffed with electronic poker and Wheel-Of-Fortune slots. I have to give them credit on their little showplace though. We’ve been there many times and the intimate setting is perfect and very safe for a Mom and a kid and an excellent place for photo-ops and autographs. That is, until last night.

First of all, when we arrived at our seats, there were roughly fifty 17-25 year olds standing at the stage. They were shouting at the crew about this and that. Seemed to this old gal that they were rather underdressed in their Daisy-Dukes and tanktops since is was only about 40 degrees last night, but I did let my subscription to “In Style” expire. Their partial nudity was only slightly less ridiculous than their counterparts, their FauxBoys (my daughter called them) - Fake Cowboys wearing straw western hats, a wide range of Hollister pastel golf shirts, and mechanically ripped jeans from American Eagle. They grew in number and drunkenness as the eight o’clock hour neared.

At this point, people that paid the “premium” price ($50) for tickets began to seek out management and complain about the stage-front Sodom and Gomorrah spectacle that was unfolding. I’m talking full-on groping, grabbing, and making out. The Premium Seat ticket holders were quickly told that the “artist” (and I use that word loosely) decides about that and that Aldean likes the people right at the stage. At this point, I’m thinking that Aldean has a pretty good scam going, if this is how he operates, night after night. (Doing the Math … 200 premium seats x the extra $25, equals … ummmm $5,000 …that brilliant little Son-Of-A-Bitch!!!)

The band was prompt, I have to give them that. Well, not the Jason Aldean Band, but another starter band (not quite good enough to earn the moniker, “opener”). Three super-skinny, blonde girls, a heroin-thin Bob Dylan look-alike on lead guitar and a bass player that I’m sure was Eric Zoolander pounced onto the sage and I almost popped an aneurysm from the feedback. Oh. My. God. Deafness would have been a gift. They were called “Chasin’ Dixie” … the daughter suggested they chose that name since they were obviously “chasin’” the Dixie Chicks wielding an electrified mandolin and a very fine fiddle.

They punished us for about 40 minutes before closing their show with Crazy On You, which was the highlight of their performance. It was most unfortunate that the most rabid of their hoochie-mama fans had no idea what the hell they were singing. I have to say though, if the sound hadn’t been so fucking bad, I think it would have been a pretty good interpretation. Then, they left the stage and with all of their stuff. Literally … they carried their own stuff off the stage with them.

By the time they finished their show, every person that had been sitting on the front row was gone and the front row chairs were pushed back against the legs of the people on the second row. I had started to get a little nervous. All you could see was people to the front, left, and right and in row after row behind us. The people on the second row started moving out. Before the show even started, people were standing on the front row chairs and the second row chairs became the ‘beer pass’. Boys/men of all sizes skimmed from seat to seat carrying two, three, sometimes four beers at a time, all while balancing on cushy chairs and avoiding the elbows and asses of the chorus line kicking it up just in front of them.

This is when I got really scared … not for me, but for Grandma sitting in front of me. She seemed to be 50ish and had her grandson (maybe 7) and Grandpa who was easily 70 there with her. Grandma was already PISSED and certainly did not like what was taking place right in front of her, so she decided that she would retaliate by pushing the beer boys off the road. No shit! This sweet little lady made an art of pushing those guys off the chair completely unnoticed, forcing them to create an entirely new spectacle before our eyes. It was becoming a wet t-shirt contest for the ages.

Right about that time, one of more obnoxious of the young group turned to the couple behind her and said, “Aren’t you pissed that you paid fifty buck for those (insert air quotes) premium (insert air quotes) seats and I only paid twenty-five and I’m standing in front of you?” She laughed hysterically and turned around and shook her bony ass double-time to some piped in Brooks and Dunn.

Thank God, they announced the band because tempers were about to blow. Jason and his crew took the stage. Everyone in his band looked like Jeff from Top Chef except for the drummer who looked more like Joey Tribbiani from Friends. Aldean, himself, was unimpressive in a plaid shirt, a few buttons short (showing too much of his scrawny chest), baggy jeans, and, lest we forget, the cowboy hat. He looked a little like Mr. T on a budget, wearing entirely too many bulky silver chains and medallions. Then he began to sing. I didn’t think that the sound could get any worse, but I was wrong. I swear to God, you couldn’t make out one word coming out of his mouth. The only semblance of lyric was coming from my sweet child, and the crowd around us who were compensating for the thundering bass and squawk of scratchy feedback.

I’m not sure how an “artist” presents an entire hour of his music looking out into a crowd of people sticking their fingers in their ears, but I have to give it to Aldean, he was a professional in that regard. He never let up; in fact, I think he just started trying to sing louder which led to more squawk and eventually actual ear pain. The bass was so intense that the bottoms of my jeans were vibrating. I sat there watching the legs of my pants shake to the “music” while Aldean entertained hoards of half-dressed bimbos with his “take my picture” antics and backwoods bravado. It was spectacular.

The drunk broad to my right was totally out of control. She was about my age and soaked to the bone, I believe. At one point, she sat on my lap for at least ten seconds before she realized that I wasn’t her chair. She danced with both arms in the air swinging them around like she was spinning an invisible hoola hoop, taking up the space … of an actual hoola hoop. I finally ended up sitting in the chair directly behind my child, looking at her ass or the floor. Good times.

Finally, those musical buffoons left the stage and I grabbed my purse and coat, only to turn around to see them returning. This was a good move, because it produced the single audible piece of music of the night, an acoustic song written for his grandfather and it really was lovely. I have to give it to Aldean, though this was his finest moment of the night, he felt the need to give the audience more of what they had obviously come for.

His “Grand Finale”, again, used loosely, was a worse-than-karaoke version of … God for-freaking-bid, Sweet Child O’ Mine … Good. God. Man. Enough. Already. It was quite possibly the most horrific cover ever and that includes a bad-pot induced Axel Rose impersonation by the lead singer of the notorious, Bananas At Large.

As soon as it was over, I grabbed my daughter by the jacket in a desperate attempt to get the hell out of there, but there was no place to go. It was like being trapped on the Titanic (if the Titanic was run by fake cowboys and Hugh Heffner). Where’s the fucking fire marshal when you need him??? Finally, the redneck reign of terror subsided and we slipped out through the roadie entrance and to the serene safety of the mini-van.

As for Mr. Aldean, he slipped away with an awful lot of money that he didn’t earn. And I’m here to tell you this; it will be a cold day in hell before I give the Buffalo Run Casino another cold, thin dime.

So this is the punk that bent me over … and no, I didn’t get kissed.

And to anyone who says there’s not a God, let me present you with this: When I got home, everyone was asleep. I poured myself a big glass of milk and turned on the television … PBS … Chris Botti and the Boston Pops … I think that speaks for itself.

Barbie's Tragic Fall From Fame

You know what they say …

the bigger they are, the harder they fall …

Barbie, 2004 Christmas Extravaganza

(looks a little stoned, if you ask me)

Barbie, the original Fashionista and controversial American icon was found dead today, on her 50th anniversary of her exceptional life. Barbie had an astounding professional career as an astronaut, doctor, mother, pharmacist, farmer, machinist, turkey-plucker, gardener, lawyer, surgeon, concierge, pianist, dog walker, fashion model, and police officer.

After a night of birthday partying with the likes of Kate Moss and Tara Reid,

(courtesy of Amy Winehouse's Facebook page)

Barbie was found face down in the toybox, unconscious. EMT’s were unable to revive her.

Donatello (of Ninja Turtle fame) is a "person of interest" in the case.

After a short memorial service, Barbie will be buried at West Corner Garage.

The public is invited to attend.

Rahm's Fantasy

Breach of Solitude

What is heard when nothing is said?

Everything?

Nothing?

More than you might think; I know that. Disapproving with fierce, friendless eyes or accepting with a mighty grin full of pluck and pith, I read you. I can feel your pulse popping in my brain, sending secret messages that peel away the layers of your clever disguises and reveal your heart, your secrets.

It’s not a noble endeavor, estrangement. You hide your real self like a child hides candy, not with selfish motives, but because it seems … right … necessary. How many eyes and noses and mouths you must possess.

Those faces are like segments of a sweet citrus fruit, clinging until they are easily broken apart, spraying a delightful fragrance that burns the eyes and nose of anyone present. Once the bitter peel is removed, the juicy, tender flesh that remains dances in the mouth to the tune of ‘Mmmmmmm’ and leaves everyone hungry for more while wiping at a burning retina.

But you refuse to give it in any abundance. Is truth so unsettling that you prefer the sticky adhesive of a polished veneer? Do your knees ache and bleed when you so fervently pray to the gods of your fears, arms outstretched like lightening rods seeking electric pain to erase your sleepless panic … hiding in the quiet dark, praying that time might stand still?

Is what you crave, peace or silence?

... because you cannot get those things from yourself.

Johnny Mac ~ Show Me The Pork, Baby

Dear Johnny Baby,

OMG ~ Do you know how much I’ve missed you? A LOT!!! It’s been totally lonely around here without your cute little face on television … that smirky grin and your precious eye-rolling.

You know I have that old-guy thing, John …

I gotta tell you, yesterday, when you slapped that desk and raised your voice just a little, I have to admit, I got a Chris Matthewsesque thrill up my leg. “Mr. President, this is not change we can believe in!” Just typing it gives me another little shiver.

Oh John, thank goodness you’re back to save us from the nasty, excesses of government pork. I know that you know that pork in its purest form is purely evil … just like eating real bacon is bad for your heart. Seriously, your inspirational stance of never accepting pork projects for your home state of Arizona makes you, literally, one in one hundred. You’re a man of your word … porkless to a fault. That is so sexy.

MORE importantly, I would be remiss not to give you a special thank-you for proving that second-hand pork is NOT bad for you … just like having sex with someone who eats a whole brisket isn’t bad for your (own) heart. I can see how this might confuse a lot of folks and I think it’s just awesome that you’ve really demonstrated that second-hand pork is not only not-bad for you … it’s GOOD for you (for you in particular anyway).

Just in case you don’t remember what I’m talking about (‘cuz you are kind of … well, old) …it works like this … pork goes to organizations that are owned by people who give lots and lots of money to you while you scream at your colleagues that actually hand out the pork … you brilliant, brilliant man ... it's like eating a whole slab of ribs and losing 5 pounds.

Remember this guy:
Greg Maffei (Big Bucks McCain Supporter), CEO of Liberty Media that acquired The Associated Group (http://www.prnewswire.com/cgi-bin/stories.pl?ACCT=105&STORY=/www/story/06-01-1999/0000952334) from the Berkman Family (Even Bigger Bucks McCain supporters).

Liberty Media lists as their capital assets:
Sprint/Nextel Corp
Multiple media outlets including Viacom and Starz (Overture Films)
I don’t even think anyone noticed that those groups were the ones that just got fat on the bailout plan pork from before the election..

Don’t forget Bill France, Jr - (who died in 2007 ~ that’s so weird) was also listed as a hunormous donor on your supporter list. His family continues to own NASCAR who is partners with Sprint/Nextel Corp and has just received multi-millions from the bailout pork that was given out during your presidential bid … that kind of clever is totally sexy, John.

Keep on keeping it real, baby … I’ll be here … waiting for my next thrill.

Love,

Me

MO's Political Royalty Descend on Kit Bond's Senate Seat

If you’re looking for political drama, may I suggest the 2010 Missouri Senate Race to replace retiring senior senator, Kit Bond.

The Players:

Sarah Steelman - Missouri State Treasurer (R) - recently lost the republican primary for Governor of Missouri to Kenny Hulshof (R), who went on to run against Jay Nixon (D). Nixon won the election to replace Matt Blunt (R), son of Representative Roy Blunt (R). Her husband is David Steelman, republican leader in the Missouri House and his father is Dorman Steelman, former chairman of the Missouri Republican Party. Steelman was highly endorsed by talking head and blowhard, Glen Beck (pre-FOX) for standing out against her own party. This video is quite good, in spite of the host.

Robin Carnahan – Missouri Secreatary of State (D) – daughter of Mel Carnahan (2 term Governor of Missouri), who ran for Senate against John Ashcroft in 2000. He died in a tragic plane crash with his son just weeks before the election. For the first time in Senate history, Carnahan won the seat after his death. His wife, Jean Carnahan, was appointed to his seat and served until 2002 when she was defeated in a special election by Jim Talent (who was recently replaced by Claire McCaskill). In recent news, Carnahan just went after investment advisors who give ill advice to senior citizens and has returned with reimbursement orders and substantial fines for offenders. http://www.bizjournals.com/stlouis/stories/2009/02/16/daily35.html?ana=from_rss

Roy Blunt – Missouri Congressman (R); Re-elected 6 times since 1996. Roy is the son of Leroy Blunt, former Missouri State Representative and the man (most) sick of being John Boehner’s bitch after losing out to him for the position of House Majority Leader in 2006 after replacing DeLay as interim. Blunt has made unsuccessful runs at both Governor and Lt. Governor in the state of Missouri and now serves as Minority Whip and grumbling mouthpiece for the Republicans, but has (recently) been quite absent from their televised outrage.
You can twitter Roy at https://twitter.com/RoyBlunt (That is irrelevant, but I found it hilarious!!! Who wants to twitter with Roy Blunt??? I don't need to twitter him because I can visit his satellite office anytime I want ~ it's in the mall right up from TJ Maxx ... )

* There was recently a rumor that Matt Blunt had planned to run for Bond's seat, but that unresolved personal property tax issues raised during McCaskill's candidacy, made that impossible.

In recent elections, Missouri has sent Claire McCaskill (D) to the Senate and Jay Nixon (D) to the Governor’s Mansion. During the presidential election, Missouri was the very last state to confirm its votes. Missouri’s 11 electoral votes eventually went to John McCain who received 49.43% of the votes, while Barack Obama received 49.29% of the votes – a very, very tight race by any standards.

Biden & Nixon in Springfield, MO ~ Oct. 2008

Losing Blunt in the House is not big news to Democrats and it won’t make or break their majority, however, the election of Robin Carnahan to Kit Bond’s Senate seat is a definite advantage.

All three candidates are very well connected and well funded. This promises to play out like a political cage match … stay tuned.

Chuck E. Cheese: Caesar's Palace for Kids

Yesterday, we hosted our very first Chuck E. Cheese Birthday Party. It will go down in the birthday history book as a success, everyone had a nice time and was well behaved, but I was left with a bad feeling in my gut …

Immediately, I realized why they call the mascot, Chuck. It’s in honor of the hundreds of tokens my kids “chucked” into their machines. On top of the 20 tokens included in the “Emperor’s” Package of birthday parties, the dozen little risk-takers managed to go through two hundred more. Actual cost of 200 extra tokens - $30.00 **with coupon.

The image of my young son depositing coins like a madman and chewing on a Twizzler was tantamount to watching my Mother, pulling slots and smoking a cigarette on a trip to Atlantic City. They both had the same wild-eyed look … only his payout would be tickets while hers would be a comp’d weekend, airfare included, and a plastic bucket full of shiny, new quarters.

The cherry coke flowed like whiskey sours and the tokens disappeared like dollar bills at a strip club. Tickets were bulging out of pockets and hanging around their necks as they ran from machine to machine, getting another digital-beeping-fix. Skee balls roared and tears were shed as the machine’s ticket-spewing mechanism jammed time after time. Unlike a real pit boss, the arcade attendant was quick to shove the scrunched and torn tickets removed from the machines into the greedy and sticky little hands of his eager clientele.

I started to wonder about the lesson of Chuck E. Cheese … what it’s teaching our babies, but there wasn’t much time … it was time for the “show”. Not Celine or Barry … just more Chuckie. Accompanied by our “hostess”, they sang half a dozen off-key songs. (I wondered if this was included in the package or if it was an add-on???) They kids were spinning and clapping … I was just waiting for one of the girls to rip off her undershirt and throw it at Chuckie with the understanding that he would inhale it deeply and shove it down his pants a la Tom Jones. Thank God, that didn’t happen.

After the gifts were opened and the cake was eaten, it was finally time to get the hell out of there and I was thrilled, until I was handed the bill. I folded it into a tight little square and sent the Hubs to pay at the register awaiting the scream of, “Somebody Call 911”. He managed to avoid a stroke, but I heard him on the phone as he walked back over to our party booth. I believe the exact quote goes something like this, “I just got screwed by Chuck E. Cheese and I didn’t even get kissed.”

We cashed in our chips … er, tickets, and proceeded to pick out tiny, plastic treasures destined to break or be lost before exiting the establishment. As they checked our fluorescent numbered hands, my son asked, “Can we come back tomorrow?”

I guess what they said in The Color of Money applies, “tickets won are twice as sweet as tickets earned” … umm, money … I mean money won.

Mary Martha Landsberger Strikes Again!

I mentioned recently that I was working on a hypothetical cookbook titled “Hypothetical Cookbook”. I’m sure I told you that this project is temporarily stalled and taking up an entire walk-in closet as I pursue other interests like a magpie in jewelry store.

Last night, I had another breakthrough … a new concept that will surely rock the foundation of crafting forever!

Let me warn you, this idea is incredible and so cutting edge that Martha & Mary will have no choice but to offer me ostentatious credits in their glossy magazines and pay me outrageous fees for my consulting services. Far better than that unadulterated hero-worship will be the outcry of gratitude from parents all over America and beyond.

They will chant my name at the kitchen table, card table, and coffee table … “Annie, Annie, Annie”! Vince, the ShamWOW dude will sell my wares on late night television and every mother, father, and child will, indeed, be saying, “WOW!” every time.

So without further ado, please let me introduce my newest creation:

The All-In-One, Total & Complete, Extra Large, NASA approved, Congressional Medal of Awesomeness winner ~ SOCIAL STUDIES PROJECT IN A BOX!!!

As I sat there, painstakingly applying glitter to the scales of justice, after two trips to the Hobby Lobby, it dawned on me that there had to be a better way. ~ Ann, Mother of 5, MO

Original offerings will include:

The Roman Republic: Complete with pre-pasted, glittery, golden scales of justice, a hand-carved, floral foam Pantheon, and a dozen, acid and lignin free, cotton bond scrolls in a plastic pot labeled “The Twelve Tables”

Life in Charles Dickens’ England: Comes with cardboard, pop-up, factory setting, complete with tuna can smokestacks and tragically injured doll holding a sign that says “For sale: baby shoes, never worn”. You will also receive, as a bonus, a copy of “The Great Stink … Corruption and Murder Beneath the Victorian Streets of London”, by Clare Clark.

The American Presidency: This is a double kit for families Republican or Democrat. Contains heavy-duty card stock masks of each president's likeness that tie in the back with 2-inch red, white, and blue grosgrain ribbon. Also included is a full script of either prolific quotes or scandalous gaffes. Oral reports will never be the same. (May also be used as Halloween costume or fun, party game.)

Suggestions for future kits should be made in the comments section below.

You’re Welcome, America.

"We Need To Talk"

My dissatisfaction with you has begun to take on proportions I could have never imagined.

You roll out of bed like the world owes you something for simply … waking. Please, put on your satin robe and realize that it does not. In fact, it’s you that owes the world something, you owe me something, and perhaps it’s time you figured out a productive form of recompense that doesn’t include disappearing into the damask with your face and your mind lost in someone else’s pages. Perhaps you could put a little heart into it … give it the old college try, click your heels together, flap your wings, I-think-I-can, I-think-I-can … or just pretend, I’ll settle for that, for now.

In spite of you, everyone gets out of here, morning after morning, on time, feeling loved, adored. You realize that that is what they deserve, but it’s no thanks to you. Too much, you take their love for granted, thinking it will always be there like the deepness of the Grand Canyon or the colors of the sunrise. Trust me when I say that it will not. They are growing and changing as fast as shadows and clouds and soon they’ll too big and too far away to touch, like kites on a strong wind, and that will be a very sad day for you … and for them. Sunrise will fade to sunset and you’ll have only whispers and regrets.

Regret is funny that way, you know, its long-term and short-term realities. I wonder how many regrets you accumulate on any one, given day. Is it possible to regret the mundane … heaps of laundry, the remnants of a good meal, the pillows askew? Do you even notice and if you do, do you even care? Oscar Wilde may have said, “Man is made for something better than disturbing dirt”, but I like to believe he wouldn’t have disapproved of pooling the taffeta just-so from time to time.

Is this ego perhaps, teetering at the pinnacle of something far worse? This is your home and the life you created and nurtured and every day we swim together in the inspired, blue-green waters of the gulf, sunbeams pouring in on us from every direction. We do this together, or we don’t do it at all and I need you.

The time for childish things has passed, you must clean up your toys and tidy your ruffles, make yourself back into yourself without anger or frustration or tears. Just fix it. Fix it now. Find your gratitude and your sensibility. Unfold your arms, positioned for burial, and let them fall freely and fully alive by your sides. Place your hands, so sweetly, over your heart and find yourself in your own rhythm. Remember who you are. Remember who you are.

And so, without further row, this little tête-à-tête must be put to bed. I’m setting this mirror down and I’m walking back out into the sunlight. Don’t follow me or do, but if you choose to, do it with all your heart. Nothing less is acceptable.

OMG!!! The BEST Valentine EVAH!!!

::Sigh ... Dreams do come true::

... I don't think the name is supposed to look like that ... is this a trick??? ... Who cares!!!